ALAN AND SHARI | 2007-01-20
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The only dumb question is the one you fail to ask, this is an old line my college professors would use in class. We expect to be punished if we do not answer the question correctly and this is the problem most of us face in here. We are not being asked trick questions, Bob I think is trying to open our minds up to objective and clear thinking. I once commented to Bob, I think I see the light but I can't seem to bring it all together, well maybe I am afraid because the master might scold me for giving the wrong answer. What I will do is speak from the heart and put it forth as I see it in relation to what I have learned in here, it's the best I can do.
Comment by Alan — 1/20/2007 @ 5:06 am | Edit This
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Thank you for the compliment. I do appreciate it. Shari
ME:
Shari, when I give a compliment I mean it. If do not weigh them first like a good PR man.
But it is good to value my compliments, because when you do say something I think is wrong I will criticize WHAT YOU SAY with the same mentality.
The main reason you put something HERE is to get MY judgment on it. What you get is MY judgment, and mark this carefully, on *** IT ***. As Alan says, I am not here to judge YOU. The less of that judgment on the crapola section of what you SAY that you consider a judgment on YOU, the more you will get out of this.
I am NOT saying your mother is ugly.
The fact is that learning the lessons I have to teach is extremely hard concentration on its own. We DO NOT need this distraction.
Now, face this fact:
MANY TIMEWS WHEN I SEE WHAT I SEE AS AN ERROR IT WILL REMIND ME OF PEOPLE WHO HAVE PISSED ME OFF ALL MY LIFE.
You had BETTER see the chance of direction when I start ruminating on how what I don't like about your comment REMINDS me of an error fostered by the enemy. If you DON'T, then you are going to assume I am regarding YOU as the enemy. This goes right back to what Alan said, you have been trained to the idea that, if you have any idea that is not Politically Correct, your teacher will treat YOU as an enemy.
A lifetime's training is not easy to get over, so Alan's point is CRUCIAL here: YOU ARE NOT IN MOMMY PROFESSOR'S WORLD HERE.
Bob's Blog is for adults.
And there are precious few of us left.